🎂 38: Happy Birthday to Me… Finally
I thought I was turning 37 instead of 38 lol. That should tell you something about where my head has been this year. Last year, I turned 37...
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Built My First Custom Keyboard and I Have No Regrets (and Several Mistakes)
That’s how I looked when I started going down my rabbit hole of ✨ keyboards ✨. I’m talking the keycaps, the switches, and ARTISANAL CAPS. Like literally everything....
Read →Position Available: Friend (Full Time, Permanent)
After some reflection on what I actually need from connection, I wrote this “job application”. If it resonates with you, you know where to find me ✌🏼 Position:...
Read →Lex Didn’t Deliver On Its Promise
I’ve done a lot, and I mean A LOT of cleanup when it comes to my relationships with people these past few years… However, this year has been...
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Dressed with Intent.
A Black transmasc style breakdown of 11+ everyday looks across casual, professional, going out, and gym fits, with honest notes on why each one works.
Read →My ADDRESSING Profile: An Honest Map of Who I Am
Part 2 of 2 — Read Part 1: What Is the Hays ADDRESSING Model? In Part 1, I introduced the Hays ADDRESSING model, which is a psychological framework for...
Read →Who Are You, Really? An Introduction to the Hays ADDRESSING Model
Part 1 of 2 — Read Part 2: My ADDRESSING Profile Most of us have been asked some version of “who are you?” at some point in our lives,...
Read →What CPTSD Looks Like on a Good Day
Everyone talks about the bad days. The ones where you can’t get out of bed. Where a text message sends you into a spiral. Where your body decides...
Read →Legacy, Learning, and Leadership: Honoring Jesse Jackson and My Grandfather, Herbert Anderson Sr.
In the wake of Jesse Jackson’s passing on February 17, 2026, I began reflecting on the enduring legacies of those who shaped the fight for civil rights, equality,...
Read →The Serpents Tour: A Gay Guardian Angel Grabbed My Hand
Red vest + fishnet sleeves, you physically adopted me and my shy partner 😭
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The Archivist
Sup, I'm Kris.
They/them.
Black. LGBTQ. Navigating life as a panromantic, demisexual, and nonbinary/transmasc person. Master's in Psychology. Here to share the journey, and find out what it all means.
This blog covers personal essays, psychology, identity, mental health, creative pursuits, gaming, anime, and whatever else I'm currently obsessed with. It's a reflection of ongoing self-discovery, life experience, and references. All intentional.
When I'm not writing, I'm shooting street photography with my Fujifilm X100V, making content on YouTube, deep in a PlayStation game trophy hunting, or building out a playlist on Spotify. I'm also a banned book enthusiast.
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