A Birthday Reflection: Still Healing; Still Here
Today, I’m 37. Not just older, though. Different. Quieter in some ways. Louder in others. Sharper. Softer. Less afraid to be both. This year’s birthday has been about...
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Pride Month 🏳️🌈: The Power and Importance of Allyship in the LGBTQ+ Community
As Pride Month approaches, it’s a time for reflection, celebration, and recognizing the ongoing journey for equality within the LGBTQ+ community. One vital aspect of this journey is...
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Mother’s Day is a time to celebrate and honor mothers, but for many of us, it can also be a time of reflection on what we’ve received, and...
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A declaration of soft power, sacred boundaries, and intentional connection I’ve learned the hard way that not everyone who calls you “family” or “friend” has your best interest...
Read →Finding “Me” Wasn’t Easy
Life isn’t linear, and neither is self-discovery. Growing up, I didn’t have a stable family life, with friendships being secondary to my parents’ needs. Taking care of my...
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The Archivist
Sup, I'm Kris.
They/them.
Black. LGBTQ. Navigating life as a panromantic, demisexual, and nonbinary person. Master's in Psychology. Here to share the journey, and find out what it all means.
This blog covers personal essays, psychology, identity, mental health, creative pursuits, gaming, anime, and whatever else I'm currently obsessed with. It's a reflection of ongoing self-discovery, life experience, and references. All intentional.
When I'm not writing, I'm shooting street photography with my Fujifilm X100V, making content on YouTube, deep in a PlayStation game trophy hunting, or building out a playlist on Spotify. I'm also a banned book enthusiast.
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