Position Available: Friend (Full Time, Permanent)
After some reflection on what I actually need from connection, I wrote this “job application”. If it resonates with you, you know where to find me ✌🏼 Position:...
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Lex Didn’t Deliver On Its Promise
I’ve done a lot, and I mean A LOT of cleanup when it comes to my relationships with people these past few years… However, this year has been...
Read →A Reflection: Coming Out Without… “The Hug”
Watching HeartStopper makes me feel bittersweet. Jealous. But most of all… alone. Nicholas “Nick” Nelson came out to his Mom and friends (new and old) as Bisexual with...
Read →A Birthday Reflection: Still Healing; Still Here
Today, I’m 37. Not just older, though. Different. Quieter in some ways. Louder in others. Sharper. Softer. Less afraid to be both. This year’s birthday has been about...
Read →Pride Month 🏳️🌈: The Power and Importance of Allyship in the LGBTQ+ Community
As Pride Month approaches, it’s a time for reflection, celebration, and recognizing the ongoing journey for equality within the LGBTQ+ community. One vital aspect of this journey is...
Read →Finding “Me” Wasn’t Easy
Life isn’t linear, and neither is self-discovery. Growing up, I didn’t have a stable family life, with friendships being secondary to my parents’ needs. Taking care of my...
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Sup, I'm Kris.
They/them.
Black. LGBTQ. Navigating life as a panromantic, demisexual, and nonbinary/transmasc person. Master's in Psychology. Here to share the journey, and find out what it all means.
This blog covers personal essays, psychology, identity, mental health, creative pursuits, gaming, anime, and whatever else I'm currently obsessed with. It's a reflection of ongoing self-discovery, life experience, and references. All intentional.
When I'm not writing, I'm shooting street photography with my Fujifilm X100V, making content on YouTube, deep in a PlayStation game trophy hunting, or building out a playlist on Spotify. I'm also a banned book enthusiast.
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